{"id":986,"date":"2018-09-21T04:40:41","date_gmt":"2018-09-21T04:40:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/?p=986"},"modified":"2018-09-21T04:47:10","modified_gmt":"2018-09-21T04:47:10","slug":"zarijove-dny-a-aklimatizace-na-novy-stereotyp-ktery-ale-nebude-mit-dlouhe-trvani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/2018\/09\/21\/zarijove-dny-a-aklimatizace-na-novy-stereotyp-ktery-ale-nebude-mit-dlouhe-trvani\/","title":{"rendered":"Z\u00e1\u0159ijov\u00e9 dny a aklimatizace na nov\u00fd stereotyp, kter\u00fd ale nebude m\u00edt dlouh\u00e9 trv\u00e1n\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eMami, ale j\u00e1 budu bre\u010det, a\u017e p\u016fjde\u0161\u201c, zahajuje Nevo kr\u00e1tce po probuzen\u00ed obyklou konverzaci. Ne\u017e vyprav\u00edm Daniela na autobus do \u0161kolky v&nbsp;7:20, dod\u011bl\u00e1m sv\u00e1\u010du pro Neva, obl\u00e9kneme se a vyraz\u00edme, uplynula od zvon\u011bn\u00ed bud\u00edku u\u017e hodina p\u016fl. Za tu dobu mn\u011b na bre\u010den\u00ed, a\u017e p\u016fjdu, upozorn\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b zhruba 15x \u2013 20x a to p\u0159es to, \u017ee se to v&nbsp;posledn\u00edch dnech u\u017e ned\u011bje. Sna\u017e\u00edm se odpov\u00eddat s&nbsp;pochopen\u00edm, uji\u0161\u0165uju ho, \u017ee bre\u010det klidn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee, \u017ee to je zdrav\u00e9 a slzy oplachuj\u00ed du\u0161i, \u017ee je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, \u017ee mu je smutno, \u017ee mn\u011b je p\u0159ece taky. A kdy\u017e dojde empatie, p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed na \u0159adu odpov\u011b\u010f typu \u201eale to u\u017e jsme p\u0159ece prob\u00edrali&#8230;\u201c, co\u017e Neva nijak neodrazuje od dal\u0161\u00edho opakov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Do \u0161kolky z&nbsp;auta uh\u00e1n\u00ed t\u0159i metry p\u0159ede mnou, vstupuje celkem s&nbsp;jistotou, odlo\u017e\u00ed si do p\u0159ihr\u00e1dky l\u00e1hev s&nbsp;vodou, uk\u00e1\u017ee mi, kde je h\u00e1\u010dek s&nbsp;jeho jm\u00e9nem, kde je t\u0159eba pov\u011bsit ba\u0165oh, hod\u00ed p\u00e1r drobn\u00fdch do \u0161kolkov\u00e9 kasi\u010dky <span lang=\"en-GB\">na charitu a vybere si, kterou stoln<\/span><span lang=\"cs-CZ\">\u00ed hru si spolu zahrajeme ne\u017e budu muset odej\u00edt. U\u017e ani neprojevuje zn\u00e1mky nervozity nebo nesoust\u0159ed\u011bnosti p\u0159i \u010dek\u00e1n\u00ed na moment, kdy se zvednu a jak dohrajeme, pt\u00e1 se s\u00e1m, jestli u\u017e jdu. Dohodneme se, \u017ee zas zam\u00e1v\u00e1 z&nbsp;okna, a\u017e budu proch\u00e1zet kolem dvorku na parking a to tak\u00e9 opravdu ud\u011bl\u00e1 a po\u0161le mi vzduchem zp\u00e1tky pusu. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"cs-CZ\">B\u011bhem z\u00e1\u0159\u00ed d\u00edky smr\u0161ti sv\u00e1tk\u016f str\u00e1vil ve \u0161kolce v\u0161eho v\u0161udy jen 4 pln\u00e9 dny (8:30 \u2013 15:45) a aklimatizace tedy zd\u00e1 se prob\u011bhla nad o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed dob\u0159e, i p\u0159es t\u011bch p\u00e1r uplakan\u00fdch odchod\u016f dva dny po za\u010d\u00e1tku, co opadlo nad\u0161en\u00ed, \u017ee u\u017e jde kone\u010dn\u011b do \u0161kolky jako jeho velk\u00fd br\u00e1cha. A pochopil, \u017ee tam bude z\u016fst\u00e1vat s\u00e1m bez maminky. Te\u010f m\u00e1 p\u0159ed sebou 10&nbsp;dn\u00ed pr\u00e1zdnin p\u0159es sv\u00e1tek Sukot, tak snad do t\u00e9 doby nezapomene, \u017ee u\u017e se tam p\u0159edt\u00edm c\u00edtil jako ryba ve vod\u011b.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"cs-CZ\">J\u00e1 m\u00e1m p\u0159ed sebou dal\u0161\u00ed\u00a0 dopoledne bez d\u011bt\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se po\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed volno s&nbsp;Giyorou, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 leto\u0161n\u00ed rok velmi vst\u0159\u00edcn\u00fd rozvrh a \u010dtvrtky a p\u00e1tky je doma, vyjde ob\u010das t\u0159eba i spole\u010dn\u00e1 sn\u00eddan\u011b nebo proch\u00e1zka po pl\u00e1\u017ei.\u00a0V\u011bt\u0161inou to ale ze \u0161kolky beru rovnou na n\u00e1kup, kde si a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m neru\u0161enou proch\u00e1zku mezi reg\u00e1ly m\u00edsto sp\u011bch\u00e1n\u00ed dom\u016f k&nbsp;\u00faklidu. Ono stejn\u011b kdy\u017e jsem si prvn\u011b malovala, kolik toho za 4 hodiny stihnu, uk\u00e1zalo se, \u017ee tak sotva t\u0159etinu pl\u00e1nu. Proto\u017ee p\u0159i aktivit\u011b vydr\u017e\u00edm maxim\u00e1ln\u011b hodinu a p\u016fl v&nbsp;kuse, ne\u017e se t\u011blo zat\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 pupkem dev\u00e1t\u00e9ho m\u011bs\u00edce t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed za\u010dne nekompromisn\u011b do\u017eadovat pauzy na odpo\u010dinek a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b j\u00eddlo. Kdy\u017e se naj\u00edm a vklidu si vypiju poledn\u00ed kafe, pov\u011bs\u00edm t\u0159et\u00ed pra\u010dku pr\u00e1dla, vyskl\u00e1d\u00e1m n\u00e1dob\u00ed z&nbsp;odkapava\u010de a my\u010dky a nand\u00e1m tam novou v\u00e1rku, stihnu tak mo\u017en\u00e1 vyt\u0159\u00edt \u010d\u00e1st ob\u00fdv\u00e1ku a u\u017e venku troub\u00ed Daniel\u016fv autobus oznamuj\u00edc\u00ed, \u017ee jsme se p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eili k&nbsp;p\u016fl t\u0159et\u00ed odpoledne (a j\u00e1 zas skoro nic nestihla).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"cs-CZ\">Hodinu m\u00e1me s&nbsp;Danielem \u010das, ne\u017e je pot\u0159eba dojet vyzvednout Neva. Daniel se nejd\u0159\u00edv s&nbsp;nad\u0161en\u00edm p\u0159id\u00e1val, ale kdy\u017e zjistil, \u017ee se cesta tam z\u00e1cpou mali\u010dko t\u00e1hne a \u017ee Nevo to po cest\u011b zp\u00e1tky obvykle zalom\u00ed, preferuje z\u016fstat doma, kdy\u017e to p\u0159\u00edtomnost druh\u00e9ho rodi\u010de umo\u017e\u0148uje. Jak jsou ob\u011b ml\u00e1\u010fata zas spolu, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 divo\u010dina. Naivn\u011b jsem si myslela, \u017ee si budou hezky hr\u00e1t, kdy\u017e se v\u011bt\u0161inu dne nevid\u00ed. Oni si teda hrajou, ale jejich p\u0159edstava hezk\u00e9 hry je na m\u00edle vzd\u00e1len\u00e1 od t\u00e9 moj\u00ed&#8230; Radost ze setk\u00e1n\u00ed je o\u010dividn\u00e1, projevuje se zt\u0159e\u0161t\u011bn\u00fdm b\u011bh\u00e1n\u00edm, sk\u00e1k\u00e1n\u00edm, k\u0159ikem a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b provokac\u00ed, pokud jeden ze sourozenc\u016f nen\u00ed dostate\u010dn\u011b soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00fd na druh\u00e9ho. Je\u0161t\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed mazec, ne\u017e jsme byli zvykl\u00ed b\u011bhem pr\u00e1zdnin. A vypad\u00e1, \u017ee to nen\u00ed jen p\u0159echodn\u00fd stav, \u010dili se v&nbsp;r\u00e1mci \u0161et\u0159en\u00ed du\u0161evn\u00edho zdrav\u00ed sna\u017e\u00edm neroz\u010dilovat a zamezovat pouze vylo\u017een\u011b nebezpe\u010den\u00fdm situac\u00edm. A vyh\u00fdbat se my\u0161lenk\u00e1m na to, jak to prob\u016fh m\u016f\u017ee u n\u00e1s vypadat, a\u017e se k&nbsp;n\u00e1m p\u0159id\u00e1 dal\u0161\u00ed Erez&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-988\" src=\"http:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/t\u011bhu-pl\u00e1\u017e-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201eMami, ale j\u00e1 budu bre\u010det, a\u017e p\u016fjde\u0161\u201c, zahajuje Nevo kr\u00e1tce po probuzen\u00ed obyklou konverzaci. Ne\u017e vyprav\u00edm Daniela na autobus do \u0161kolky v&nbsp;7:20, dod\u011bl\u00e1m sv\u00e1\u010du pro Neva, obl\u00e9kneme se a vyraz\u00edme, uplynula od zvon\u011bn\u00ed bud\u00edku u\u017e hodina p\u016fl. Za tu dobu mn\u011b na bre\u010den\u00ed, a\u017e p\u016fjdu, upozorn\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b zhruba 15x \u2013 20x a to p\u0159es to, &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/2018\/09\/21\/zarijove-dny-a-aklimatizace-na-novy-stereotyp-ktery-ale-nebude-mit-dlouhe-trvani\/\" class=\"more-link\">Pokra\u010dovat ve \u010dten\u00ed<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8222;Z\u00e1\u0159ijov\u00e9 dny a aklimatizace na nov\u00fd stereotyp, kter\u00fd ale nebude m\u00edt dlouh\u00e9 trv\u00e1n\u00ed&#8220;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-986","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","category-z-bezneho-zivota"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/986","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=986"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/986\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":991,"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/986\/revisions\/991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=986"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=986"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=986"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}