{"id":1214,"date":"2019-01-30T08:16:26","date_gmt":"2019-01-30T08:16:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/?p=1214"},"modified":"2019-01-30T08:16:26","modified_gmt":"2019-01-30T08:16:26","slug":"nase-zidovska-svatba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/2019\/01\/30\/nase-zidovska-svatba\/","title":{"rendered":"Na\u0161e \u017eidovsk\u00e1 svatba"},"content":{"rendered":"

Samotn\u00fd ritu\u00e1l koup\u00e1n\u00ed v mikve byl tak moc naru\u0161en\u00fd zmatkem a my\u0161lenkami okolo d\u011bt\u00ed, \u017ee k n\u011bjak\u00e9mu spiritu\u00e1ln\u00edmu z\u00e1\u017eitku m\u011bl na m\u00edle daleko. Uklidnila jsem se a\u017e v m\u00edstnosti, kde jsme se s dal\u0161\u00edmi nev\u011bstami chystaly na na\u0161e svatby. Eitan po nakojen\u00ed spokojen\u011b usnul a kluci byli pod Giyorov\u00fdm dohledem vzorn\u011b p\u0159ilepen\u00ed k tablet\u016fm. Dostavil se pocit p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 du\u0161evn\u00ed \u010distoty nepodobn\u00fd ni\u010demu, co jsem do t\u00e9 doby znala. Takhle si najednou po skoro 40 letech \u017eivota vykro\u010dit s novou identitou v\u016fbec nen\u00ed k zahozen\u00ed. Zp\u011btn\u011b jsem si zpomalen\u011b prom\u00edtla z\u00e1\u017eitek z mikve – jak mi rab\u00ednka \u017eehn\u00e1 po prvn\u00edm oplachu v mikve, jak se mi neda\u0159\u00ed pono\u0159it v tom h\u00e1bitu a po druh\u00e9m pokusu se vyno\u0159uju se v\u0161emi vlasy p\u0159es obli\u010dej. Jak se m\u011b soudci ptaj\u00ed, jestli siln\u011b, ale opravdu siln\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edm v Boha a j\u00e1 si p\u0159ipad\u00e1m, \u017ee je vid\u00edm i sly\u0161\u00edm p\u0159es sklo akv\u00e1ria nebo tak n\u011bco. A \u017ee jsem na n\u011b nahoru z t\u00e9 vody z\u00edrala fakt jak polapen\u00e1 ryba, horliv\u011b p\u0159ikyvovala, jak kdyby tam st\u00e1l samotnej B\u016fh a n\u00e1sledn\u011b zmotala i to nejprimitivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 skoro rok \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t denn\u011b. P\u0159i\u0161lo mi to cel\u00fd komick\u00fd, jak jsem tak na sebe koukala do zrcadla, f\u00e9novala si vlasy, po dlouh\u00e9 dob\u011b na sebe pl\u00e1cala make up a t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 vyschlou \u0159asenkou, co m\u011bs\u00edce doma le\u017eela ladem, zkou\u0161ela malovat \u0159asy. Ty jo, j\u00e1 se tu fakt chyst\u00e1m na svatbu! S t\u00edm sam\u00fdm chlapem, kter\u00e9ho jsem si vzala p\u0159ed v\u00edc ne\u017e sedmi lety na z\u00e1mku v Brand\u00fdse nad Labem, proto\u017ee v Izraeli by m\u011b coby ne\u017eidovku s \u017eidem nikdo neoddal.<\/p>\n

Podle instrukc\u00ed od rabin\u00e1tu jsme donesli kidu\u0161ov\u00e9 v\u00edno, poh\u00e1rek na n\u011bj, snubn\u00ed prst\u00fdnek pro m\u011b, ktubu, kterou jsme dostali p\u0159i uzav\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed term\u00ednu svatby, a k\u0159ehkou sklenku zabalenou do pap\u00edru a alobalu, v igelitov\u00e9m s\u00e1\u010dku. Tu skleni\u010dku koupil Giyora v judaice, speci\u00e1ln\u00ed svatebn\u00ed \u2013 na roz\u0161l\u00e1pnut\u00ed. Je tak k\u0159ehk\u00e1, \u017ee dom\u016f na pit\u00ed by si to koupil jenom magor. Mohlo n\u00e1m hned doj\u00edt, \u017ee v b\u011b\u017en\u00fdch obchodech to nenajdem.<\/p>\n

Ne\u017e rab\u00edni vy\u0159\u00eddili v\u0161e pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 od svateb\u010dan\u016f, ub\u011bhly dlouh\u00e9 t\u0159i hodiny. Pro d\u011bti byly samoz\u0159ejm\u011b t\u0159ikr\u00e1t del\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e pro n\u00e1s. Kdo rozhodl, v jak\u00e9m po\u0159ad\u00ed se p\u00e1ry budou odd\u00e1vat, rozhodn\u011b na prcky ohledy nebral. \u0160li jsme a\u017e posledn\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se kone\u010dn\u011b \u010dty\u0159i siln\u00ed chl\u00e1pci chopili sloupk\u016f chupy (baldach\u00fdn pro \u017eidovsk\u00fd svatebn\u00ed ob\u0159ad), byl t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nadlidsk\u00fd \u00fakon kluky je\u0161t\u011b udr\u017eet, aby pokud mo\u017eno neru\u0161ili odd\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed aspo\u0148 p\u00e1r\u016fm p\u0159ed n\u00e1mi. Bylo p\u016fl druh\u00e9, kluci byli unaven\u00ed a p\u0159ejeden\u00ed krekr\u016f a na st\u0159\u00edda\u010dku n\u00e1s p\u0159emlouvali, \u017ee u\u017e cht\u011bj\u00ed j\u00edt na h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b, kter\u00e9 jsme jim sl\u00edbili, kdy\u017e vydr\u017e\u00ed. Vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed o tom, \u017ee to je pro n\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, se setkalo s mnohem men\u0161\u00edm \u00fasp\u011bchem ne\u017e to h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b… Eitan u\u017e se taky hl\u00e1sil k sv\u011btu a v ko\u010d\u00e1ru ho to p\u0159est\u00e1valo bavit. Za\u010d\u00ednala jsem m\u00edt v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9 obavy o tom, jak to bude vypadat, a\u017e p\u0159ijdeme na \u0159adu my, co bude s d\u011btma…<\/p>\n

Tak jo, u\u017e to p\u0159i\u0161lo. Giyora naprosto bezosty\u0161n\u011b po\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1 jednu z nev\u011bst, a\u0165 n\u00e1m mrkne na Eitana a jdeme si stoupnout pod chupu. Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m se t\u0159\u00e1st a hrnou se mi do o\u010d\u00ed slzy. Moment dojet\u00ed hned v z\u00e1rodku zaraz\u00ed kluci a vrhnou se pod chupu za n\u00e1mi. Obavy z nah\u00e1n\u011bn\u00ed zmizel\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed byly zbyte\u010dn\u00e9, oba se n\u00e1m motaj\u00ed pod nohama. P\u0159\u00edli\u0161 unud\u011bn\u00fd na to, aby aspo\u0148 vte\u0159inku st\u00e1li. V\u011b\u0161\u00ed se n\u00e1m na ruce, klekaj\u00ed na kolena, \u0161\u0165ouchaj\u00ed do sebe, strkaj\u00ed se. Sna\u017e\u00edme se je od sebe dr\u017eet tak, aby pou\u017eit\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed nebylo vid\u011bt, a p\u0159itom udr\u017eet pozornost na odd\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00edm rab\u00ednovi. Pozitivn\u00ed je, \u017ee se rab\u00edn prckama ani pok\u0159ikuj\u00edc\u00edm Eitanem z ko\u010d\u00e1rku absolutn\u011b nenech\u00e1v\u00e1 znerv\u00f3znit, negativn\u00ed, \u017ee tu \u0159e\u010d sp\u00ed\u0161 prodlu\u017euje ne\u017e kr\u00e1t\u00ed. Pamatuju si jen, \u017ee mluvil o posl\u00e1n\u00ed v Giyorov\u011b jm\u00e9n\u011b a \u017ee te\u010f jsme teda Giyora a gijoret :-). Dost\u00e1v\u00e1m prst\u00fdnek, na kter\u00fd m\u00e1m nastavit ukazov\u00e1\u010dek. To jsem netu\u0161ila a vedle stoj\u00edc\u00ed rab\u00ednka mi po marn\u00e9 snaze to vysv\u011btlit prost\u011b bere ruku a \u0161teluje ten spr\u00e1vnej prst. No, to aby se o z\u00e1bavu nestaraly jenom d\u011bti… Prstenem jsem zasv\u011bcen\u00e1 a s\u0148atek je uzav\u0159en. Pln\u00edm p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed star\u00e9 pan\u00ed, co prosila o po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed pro syna a pron\u00e1\u0161\u00edm jej \u0161eptam sm\u011brem k n\u00ed tak, jak nejl\u00edp dovedu. D\u011bkuje mi dojat\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem. Giyora mi p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1 ktubu a rab\u00edn pron\u00e1\u0161\u00ed sedm svatebn\u00edch po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed. Pak m\u011b mu\u017e napoj\u00ed v\u00ednem z p\u0159ivezen\u00e9ho poh\u00e1rku. Bohu\u017eel nealkoholick\u00fdm, n\u011bco tvrd\u0161\u00edho by v tu chv\u00edli bodlo. Jako posledn\u00ed krok ob\u0159adu Giyora pravou nohou rozdupne tu zabalenou k\u0159ehkou skleni\u010dku, coby p\u0159ipomenut\u00ed zni\u010den\u00ed chr\u00e1mu. V tuto chv\u00edli by m\u011bla za\u010d\u00edt \u201ehostina\u201c. Ale my jsme r\u00e1di, \u017ee jsme voln\u00ed! Ehm, toti\u017e svoji :). Zobnem z p\u0159ivezen\u00fdch krekr\u016f, co se u\u017e do d\u011bt\u00ed neve\u0161ly, p\u0159\u00edj\u00edm\u00e1me n\u011bkolik gratulac\u00ed od p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fdch (odd\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed rab\u00edn n\u00e1m p\u0159eje do roka dvoj\u010data hol\u010di\u010dky, huh!) a rychle se dekujeme pry\u010d. Giyora doveze kluky na n\u011bkolik blok\u016f vzd\u00e1len\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b a j\u00e1 tam klu\u0161u s Eitanem v ko\u010d\u00e1rku. P\u0159est\u00e1vka na sv\u00e1\u010du pro n\u00e1s dosp\u011bl\u00e9 a Eitana. Ti zbyl\u00ed dva jsou st\u00e1le p\u0159ecpan\u00ed krekry. S Giyorou se h\u00e1z\u00edme do civilu a hur\u00e1 do Haify, kde si u\u017eijeme na pl\u00e1\u017ei n\u011bco p\u0159es hodinu do z\u00e1padu slunce. Vdan\u00e1 Yael u\u017e p\u011bkn\u011b s \u0161\u00e1tkem na hlav\u011b, jak si to natr\u00e9novala. V\u016fbec jsme toho natr\u00e9novali hodn\u011b. A te\u010f n\u00e1s pustili z cvi\u010di\u0161t\u011b na boji\u0161t\u011b, tak snad bude lehko :-).<\/p>\n

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Samotn\u00fd ritu\u00e1l koup\u00e1n\u00ed v mikve byl tak moc naru\u0161en\u00fd zmatkem a my\u0161lenkami okolo d\u011bt\u00ed, \u017ee k n\u011bjak\u00e9mu spiritu\u00e1ln\u00edmu z\u00e1\u017eitku m\u011bl na m\u00edle daleko. Uklidnila jsem se a\u017e v m\u00edstnosti, kde jsme se s dal\u0161\u00edmi nev\u011bstami chystaly na na\u0161e svatby. Eitan po nakojen\u00ed spokojen\u011b usnul a kluci byli pod Giyorov\u00fdm dohledem vzorn\u011b p\u0159ilepen\u00ed k tablet\u016fm. Dostavil se pocit p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 du\u0161evn\u00ed \u010distoty … <\/p>\n

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