{"id":1045,"date":"2018-10-24T20:18:32","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T20:18:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/?p=1045"},"modified":"2018-10-24T20:18:32","modified_gmt":"2018-10-24T20:18:32","slug":"zpatky-na-lekce-gijuru","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/2018\/10\/24\/zpatky-na-lekce-gijuru\/","title":{"rendered":"Zp\u00e1tky na lekce gijuru"},"content":{"rendered":"

B\u011bhem m\u011bs\u00edce doma jsem pro\u0161vihla 6 lekc\u00ed gijuru. Vzhledem k celkov\u00e9 poctiv\u00e9 doch\u00e1zce to a\u017e tak nevad\u00ed, ale jedn\u00e1 se o t\u00e9mata, na kter\u00e9 jsem se extra t\u011b\u0161ila \u2013 cudnost, v\u00fdb\u011br partnera, \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed, spokojen\u00e1 rodina, vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed \u017eidovsk\u00e9ho domova. T\u0159\u00edda se rozd\u011blila na mu\u017eskou a \u017eenskou \u010d\u00e1st. Moshe p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed chlap\u016fm a Revital \u017eensk\u00fdm, proto\u017ee je nutn\u00e9 probrat i dost intimn\u00ed z\u00e1le\u017eitosti :-). To mi celkem nahr\u00e1lo, proto\u017ee do t\u0159\u00eddy pln\u00e9 bab klidn\u011b m\u016f\u017eu nakr\u00e1\u010det s t\u00edm, \u017ee n\u011bkde vzadu v lavici celou p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ku prokoj\u00edm. Kdy\u017e Giyora hl\u00e1sil, \u017ee na posledn\u00ed lekci Revital nesla kytaru, rozhodnut\u00ed, \u017ee o \u017e\u00e1dnou dal\u0161\u00ed jej\u00ed stand-up show nechci p\u0159ij\u00edt, dozr\u00e1lo definitivn\u011b.<\/p>\n

Jakmile se v pond\u011bl\u00ed Giyora vr\u00e1til s Danielem z jeho \u201ehrac\u00ed skupinky\u201c (dal\u0161\u00ed doporu\u010den\u00e1 terapie, co m\u00e1 Danielovi uleh\u010dit fungov\u00e1n\u00ed v soci\u00e1ln\u00edch vztaz\u00edch), sbalila jsem mimi ta\u0161ku a Eitana a vyrazila po v\u00edce ne\u017e m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u00ed odmlce nat\u011b\u0161en\u011b do \u0161koly. Sice s t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 p\u016flhodinov\u00fdm zpo\u017ed\u011bn\u00edm, ale i tak jsem p\u0159ed sebou m\u011bla je\u0161t\u011b necel\u00e9 dv\u011b hodiny skv\u011bl\u00e9ho a dle o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dasto i velmi komick\u00e9ho vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed o <\/span>udr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b v man\u017eelstv\u00ed. Dozv\u011bd\u011bly jsme se, co to je <\/span>\u201c<\/span>nida\u201c, jak prob\u00edh\u00e1 n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva mikve a doporu\u010den\u00ed na nejlep\u0161\u00ed mikve spa v bl\u00edzk\u00e9m okol\u00ed. Nav\u00edc spoustu podrobnost\u00ed z Revitalina man\u017eelstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 z jist\u011b pochopiteln\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f nebudu sd\u00edlet. Sv\u00fdmi p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy ze \u017eivota ortodoxn\u00edch \u017eid\u016f n\u00e1s pobavila, rozn\u011b\u017enila i dojala. Zat\u00edmco j\u00e1 v 15 v\u011b\u0159ila, \u017ee l\u00e1ska na cel\u00fd \u017eivot je jen v poh\u00e1dk\u00e1ch a vd\u00e1vat se je blbost, jej\u00ed 4 d\u011bti a p\u00e1t\u00e9 na cest\u011b vyr\u016fstaj\u00ed s v\u011bdom\u00edm, \u017ee vybrat si pokud mo\u017eno co nejd\u0159\u00edv toho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho partnera a zalo\u017eit s n\u00edm \u0161\u0165astnou rodinu je to nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, co jim \u017eivot m\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t. A\u017e s bl\u00ed\u017e\u00edc\u00ed se \u010dty\u0159ic\u00edtkou a t\u0159emi d\u011btmi j\u00ed d\u00e1v\u00e1m za pravdu a pros\u00edm Boha, a\u0165 mi to \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed co nejd\u00e9le zachov\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\n

A tohle m\u00e1 b\u00fdt jedna z ingredienc\u00ed receptu na \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed, kter\u00fd rab\u00edni podle T\u00f3ry sestavili: na 12 dn\u00ed v m\u011bs\u00edci bychom s man\u017eelem m\u011bli m\u00edt odd\u011blen\u00e9 postele a nejen se nedotknout jeden druh\u00e9ho, ale ani si nic nepodat z ruky do ruky. \u017de recept perfektn\u011b fugnuje na \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f s plodnost\u00ed nesporn\u011b dokazuj\u00ed po\u010detn\u00e9 rodiny ortodoxn\u00edch \u017eid\u016f. To aktu\u00e1ln\u011b opravdu nen\u00ed d\u016fvod, pro\u010d bychom to s Giyorou cht\u011bli praktikovat, ale samoz\u0159ejm\u011b se na to chyst\u00e1me pod heslem \u201eChce\u0161 b\u00fdt \u017eidovka? Tak si zkus, jak\u00fd to je\u201c. A stejn\u011b jako s mnoha dal\u0161\u00edmi praktikami, co se staly sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed na\u0161eho \u017eivota, i kdy\u017e se n\u00e1m prvotn\u011b nepozd\u00e1valy, v\u011b\u0159\u00edme, \u017ee nem\u00e1me, co ztratit, pouze z\u00edskat. Jak to provedeme v praxi nev\u00edm, proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z na\u0161ich t\u0159\u00ed syn\u016f si aktu\u00e1ln\u011b n\u00e1rokuje celono\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnost rodi\u010de a tak sp\u00ed Giyora u\u017e 14 dn\u00ed na matraci v pokoji u star\u0161\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed. Snaz\u0161\u00ed by bylo praktikovat jin\u00fd doporu\u010den\u00fd krok a vyhodit z domu televize, ale to mi neprojde. <\/span><\/p>\n

Eitan si hlas Revital z\u0159ejm\u011b pamatuje a i kdy\u017e mu mnohokr\u00e1t b\u011bhem p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ky \u0159\u00e1dn\u011b p\u0159idala na s\u00edle, nevyd\u011bsilo ho to. Ale na rozd\u00edl ode m\u011b ho pov\u00edd\u00e1n\u00ed tolik nezaujalo a posledn\u00ed hodinu byl pod koj\u00edc\u00edm p\u0159ehozem permanentn\u011b p\u0159is\u00e1tej na prsu. Ono taky pot\u0159eboval vym\u011bnit plenku, ale ru\u0161it t\u00edm mi p\u0159i\u0161lo u\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nevhodn\u00e9 a necht\u011bla jsem t\u0159\u00eddu opustit, abych o n\u011bco nep\u0159i\u0161la. Tak hlavn\u011b \u017ee jsme to zvl\u00e1dli k oboustrann\u00e9 spokojenosti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Prob\u00edran\u00fd materi\u00e1l kurzu gijuru je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 u konce a za m\u011bs\u00edc a p\u016fl, 12. prosince, n\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1 prvn\u00ed pokus testu p\u0159ed soudci, kte\u0159\u00ed rozhodnou, jestli si ten \u201e\u0159idi\u010d\u00e1k na judaismus\u201c u\u017e zaslou\u017e\u00edme. Jasn\u011b, \u017ee bych cht\u011bla diplom za to, co jsme do studi\u00ed investovali, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u00edm, \u017ee verdikt soudc\u016f nezm\u011bn\u00ed nic na faktu, \u017ee jsme jen na za\u010d\u00e1tku cesty a m\u00e1me se toho d\u00e1l hodn\u011b, co u\u010dit. P\u0159esn\u011b, jak odpov\u011bd\u011bl Giyora se sm\u00edchem sv\u00e9 mamince, kdy\u017e se ptala, jak dlouho je\u0161t\u011b budeme studovat: \u201eno p\u0159ece celej \u017eivot, mami\u201c :-). <\/span><\/p>\n

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B\u011bhem m\u011bs\u00edce doma jsem pro\u0161vihla 6 lekc\u00ed gijuru. Vzhledem k celkov\u00e9 poctiv\u00e9 doch\u00e1zce to a\u017e tak nevad\u00ed, ale jedn\u00e1 se o t\u00e9mata, na kter\u00e9 jsem se extra t\u011b\u0161ila \u2013 cudnost, v\u00fdb\u011br partnera, \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed, spokojen\u00e1 rodina, vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed \u017eidovsk\u00e9ho domova. T\u0159\u00edda se rozd\u011blila na mu\u017eskou a \u017eenskou \u010d\u00e1st. Moshe p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed chlap\u016fm a Revital \u017eensk\u00fdm, proto\u017ee je nutn\u00e9 … <\/p>\n

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