{"id":1021,"date":"2018-10-14T11:40:03","date_gmt":"2018-10-14T11:40:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/?p=1021"},"modified":"2023-08-26T20:54:14","modified_gmt":"2023-08-26T20:54:14","slug":"mami-mne-je-spatne-a-mame-tu-prvniho-maroda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.monikavizraeli.com\/index.php\/2018\/10\/14\/mami-mne-je-spatne-a-mame-tu-prvniho-maroda\/","title":{"rendered":"„Mami, mn\u011b je \u0161patn\u011b!“ A m\u00e1me tu prvn\u00edho maroda…"},"content":{"rendered":"

A j\u00e9je, tak za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me. Daniel od \u010dtvrte\u010dn\u00edho ve\u010dera f\u0148ukal, \u017ee mu nen\u00ed dob\u0159e a bol\u00ed ho b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko. I kdy\u017e p\u016fvodn\u00ed hrozba, \u017ee bude blinkat, se d\u00edky Bohu nenaplnila,  teplom\u011br ukazoval lehce zv\u00fd\u0161enou teplotu a Daniel opravdu zdrav\u011b nevypadal. V p\u00e1tek r\u00e1no v p\u016fl \u0161est\u00e9 jsem ho na\u0161la zkrou\u0161en\u011b pobrek\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00edho u dve\u0159\u00ed lo\u017enice. Pro\u010d ne\u0161el dovnit\u0159 jsem nepochopila, a<\/span>le vzala jsem ho tam, p\u0159inesla pol\u0161t\u00e1\u0159 a pe\u0159inu a doufala, \u017ee je\u0161t\u011b usne. Marn\u011b. V \u0161est jsme vstali a vyvezli post\u00fdlku s Eitanem, kter\u00e9ho se mi k dal\u0161\u00edmu \u0161lof\u00edku p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit povedlo. \u0160kolka t\u00edmto pad\u00e1 i pro Neva, proto\u017ee kv\u016fli necel\u00fdm t\u0159em hodink\u00e1m nehodl\u00e1m absolvovat n\u00e1ro\u010dnou v\u00fdpravu s t\u0159emi, nav\u00edc s rizikem, \u017ee Daniel poblink\u00e1 auto… N\u011bjak\u00fd ve\u010der bez pomoci jsme u\u017e ve t\u0159ech zvl\u00e1dli, ale dopoledne m\u00e1me premi\u00e9rov\u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Giyora se vrac\u00ed ve dv\u011b, \u010dili m\u00e1m p\u0159ed sebou b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00fdch osm hodin. Daniel\u016fv stav se v\u00fdrazn\u011b zlep\u0161il, kdy\u017e jsme \u0159idi\u010de p\u0159istaven\u00e9ho autobusu informovali, \u017ee do \u0161kolky dnes nepojede. A sakra… Ano, jsem r\u00e1da, \u017ee mu nen\u00ed extra zle, na druhou stranu by prole\u017een\u00edm a prosp\u00e1n\u00edm dopoledne na gau\u010d\u00edku bez po\u017eadavk\u016f na j\u00eddlo a pit\u00ed (takhle obvykle st\u016fn\u011b) situaci v\u00fdrazn\u011b usnadnil… <\/span><\/p>\n

Ale tak to se nekon\u00e1. Dobr\u00e1, stanovme si priority: <\/span><\/p>\n

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    p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n

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    nenechat se vyto\u010dit<\/span><\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    M\u00e1m p\u00e1r dal\u0161\u00edch po\u017eadavk\u016f, jako t\u0159eba nestr\u00e1vit v\u011bt\u0161inu \u010dasu u telky a u tabletu, ale pro zachov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u0159\u00edve uveden\u00e9ho jsem dneska pevn\u011b rozhodnut\u00e1 tyhle aktivity omezovat minim\u00e1ln\u011b… \u00da\u010del sv\u011bt\u00ed prost\u0159edky, \u017ee. Nebo zamezit tomu, aby se ml\u00e1tili a je\u010deli jeden na druh\u00e9ho, ale i to nech\u00e1v\u00e1m dnes zaj\u00edt d\u00e1l ne\u017e obvykle \u2013 dokud nebude sly\u0161et pl\u00e1\u010d nebo rozb\u00edjen\u00ed v\u011bc\u00ed. A kupodivu se to do t\u00e9 f\u00e1ze dost\u00e1v\u00e1 minim\u00e1ln\u011b a Daniel po vyhrocen\u00fdch konfliktech dokonce n\u011bkdy p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed s p\u0159ijateln\u00fdmi n\u00e1vrhy \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. Zkou\u0161\u00ed od Neva z\u00edsk\u00e1vat pr\u00e1v\u011b cht\u011bnou hra\u010dku (tj. cokoliv Nevo vezme do ruky…) v\u00fdm\u011bnou za jinou nebo navrhuje \u010dasov\u00fd \u00fasek, po kter\u00e9m mu j\u00ed Nevo t\u0159eba d\u00e1 (a\u017e si s t\u00edm dohraje\u0161, tak mi to d\u00e1\u0161?). Nevo se ob\u010das nech\u00e1 ukecat, h\u00e1z\u00ed odpov\u011bdi typu „d\u00e1m ti j\u00ed v jednu“ (ani\u017e by m\u011bl pon\u011bt\u00ed o \u010dase a hodin\u00e1ch) a j\u00e1 m\u00e1m radost, \u017ee to neust\u00e1l\u00e9 vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed m\u00e1 snad p\u0159ece jen n\u011bjak\u00fd efekt. <\/span><\/p>\n

    J\u00edt s nimi ven je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 i bez miminka a kdy\u017e u\u017e o tom za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m jako o nouzov\u00e9m \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed uva\u017eovat, bl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed se poledne a tud\u00ed\u017e ta nejm\u00ed\u0148 vhodn\u00e1 doba, proto\u017ee p\u0159es den jsou venku po\u0159\u00e1d pa\u0159\u00e1ky. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Eitan si na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed od r\u00e1na klade minim\u00e1ln\u00ed po\u017eadavky a krom\u011b v\u00fdm\u011bny plen a rychl\u00e9ho kojen\u00ed si spokojen\u011b le\u017e\u00ed nebo sp\u00ed. T\u00edm sp\u00ed\u0161 se mi ho nechce tla\u010dit do \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdch akc\u00ed za uspokojen\u00edm pot\u0159eb t\u011bch dvou star\u0161\u00edch, toho si v \u017eivot\u011b je\u0161t\u011b u\u017eije dost.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Giyora sice p\u0159i\u0161el u\u017e v p\u016fl jedn\u00e9, ale \u00fapln\u011b zni\u010denej z fyzicky i psychicky n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9ho \u0161koln\u00edho v\u00fdletu, a hned po spr\u0161e se postavil k plotn\u011b k p\u0159\u00edprav\u011b j\u00eddla na \u0161abat. Kluk\u016fm u\u017e jeho pouh\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edtomnost tot\u00e1ln\u011b bo\u0159\u00ed maminkou pracn\u011b nastavovan\u00e9 hranice a za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed t\u00f3\u010do, ne\u017e bylo od r\u00e1na. Nav\u00edc Eitan u\u017e je z dopoledne hezky vyspinkanej a odkl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed do post\u00fdllky se mu u\u017e nel\u00edb\u00ed. Kluky zkou\u0161\u00edm pacifikovat s Eitanem na rukou a Giyora od p\u00e1nvi\u010dek. <\/span><\/p>\n

    To je tak, kdy\u017e se k n\u011b\u010demu \u010dlov\u011bk upne jako k z\u00e1chran\u00e9mu bodu. Jen\u017ee na \u0161abat doraz\u00ed tch\u00fdn\u011b a velk\u00fd kuci, jeden s p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u00ed, \u010dili ten gul\u00e1\u0161, co se mi povedlo ud\u011blat den p\u0159edt\u00edm, sta\u010dit nebude. <\/span>S bl\u00ed\u017e\u00edc\u00edm se ve\u010derem je \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed nenechat se vyto\u010dit. Situaci nakonec zachra\u0148uje Giyorovo dosp\u011bl\u00e9 potomstvo a Gali, p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b Yahava, co doraz\u00ed v \u0161est a kluk\u016fm odevzd\u00e1 svoj\u00ed plnou pozornost. Co\u017e je samoz\u0159ejm\u011b p\u0159esn\u011b to, co pot\u0159ebovali :-). O necelou hodinku pozd\u011bji se k nim p\u0159id\u00e1 tch\u00fdn\u011b, kter\u00e1 d\u011bti pot\u011b\u0161\u00ed jako obvykle po\u0159\u00e1dnou d\u00e1vkou nezdrav\u00e9ho cukru. Ale aspo\u0148 se ptaj\u00ed, co m\u016f\u017eou sn\u00edst a rozum\u011b se domluv\u00edme. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Stanoven\u00e9 priority spln\u011bny a ani jsem nezv\u00fd\u0161ila hlas. Jsem na sebe hrd\u00e1! Kdyby se nad ka\u017ed\u00fdm bacilem v\u017edycky povedlo vyhr\u00e1t takhle, byla by to vlastn\u011b par\u00e1da :-). <\/span><\/p>\n

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    A j\u00e9je, tak za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me. Daniel od \u010dtvrte\u010dn\u00edho ve\u010dera f\u0148ukal, \u017ee mu nen\u00ed dob\u0159e a bol\u00ed ho b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko. I kdy\u017e p\u016fvodn\u00ed hrozba, \u017ee bude blinkat, se d\u00edky Bohu nenaplnila,  teplom\u011br ukazoval lehce zv\u00fd\u0161enou teplotu a Daniel opravdu zdrav\u011b nevypadal. V p\u00e1tek r\u00e1no v p\u016fl \u0161est\u00e9 jsem ho na\u0161la zkrou\u0161en\u011b pobrek\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00edho u dve\u0159\u00ed lo\u017enice. Pro\u010d ne\u0161el dovnit\u0159 jsem nepochopila, … <\/p>\n

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